I don't want it to be sad.  I'd hope that friends and family that know me well would throw up gang signs in jest at my funeral.  Maybe even going as far as pouring out some champagne on the floor.  If I died in an accident, I'd hope that someone would do an impression of me saying, "what the crap" or "that was ballz."  Death hath no sting.  I wouldn't want to be remembered for being a boring "stand up citizen" or a "good person."  I'd want to be known as the guy who just wanted to have a good time, love people, explore, and be creative.  I've said a few times before, I'd love to be buried viking style; body set on a raft and then set on fire and pushed out to sea.  I'd be screwed if we could feel pain after death...but whatever.