Tag: control

Hall’s Rule of Social Order – #17

3 September, 2012 (12:00) | Hall's Rules of Social Order

You can’t control others.   You can influence.  You can lead by example.  You can threaten.  You can scare.  You can encourage.  You can explain your point of view.  You can layout the logic and consequences of actions.  You can suck it up and walk away when they still don’t do what you say because […]

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Hall’s Rule of Social Order – #16

27 August, 2012 (12:00) | Hall's Rules of Social Order

You are never in control.   You think the 26 year old Olympic swimmer who had a heart attack thought he was in control of his health?  The sooner you stop trying to control your outside effectors, and accept your inability to control them, the less impact those effectors will have on your mental state.  […]

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